Anxious Black Girl Chronicle : You are exactly where you need to be!

There this voice in my head and its telling me that i should be done with school already…i should have this figured out by now…and it  compares to my peer  and telling me how behind i am in life.

Last summer,a butt load of my friends graduated with there undergrad degrees, and well i’m still stuck in my 3rd to last semester of undergrad class.And i’m not going to lie that voice in my head comparing me to the rest of my peers is kind of getting to me.If i’m thinking logically i can convince myself  that the fact that i’m paying for college out of pocket is hell of a handicap.But every now and then i still feel like a failure not being where i think i should be from time to time.

But fudge that,I am exactly where i should be ! i figure i cant be the only one who’s heard that voice in their head .So why let it trip me up?I guess this post is a bit  of me trying to work throught some issues but mostly a message to you…You are exactly where you need to be friend.Were all different,so why should my journey be the exact same thing as your.Where ever you are at right now at this point in your life,you will always have a chance to get better or make changes for the better.But just know that this is your journey and you are exactly where you are suppose to be.


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Hi, there! I'm Kerren, a Professional Corrector of words/ SpoonFAU Editorial Director. Welcome to that little corner of the internet that oozes Positivity!

8 thoughts on “Anxious Black Girl Chronicle : You are exactly where you need to be!

  1. I totally agree. We all feel by a certain age, we should be at a certain place in life. But that’s not true. Everyone’s journey is different. And just imagine how boring life would be if we were all doing the same things. Great post!!

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  2. I agree! Comparing ourselves and our lives with others can really make us feel sad. But that’s what keeps us behind, that’s what really harms us. We should always take a step back in order to envision what WE want to do and what WE really love. It’s our life and we should live it the way we want. Who cares what others do?


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